what if you don't have an appealing face

even though my parents always tell me that there's nothing wrong with my face or appearance...ive often felt there is something wrong...that i don't have an appealing face or that i look distinct? my elderly parents tell me that i'm just ordinary and non descript...nothing distinct about me at all.

but if i'm obsessed that i don't have an appealing face and don't allure people...what can i do? i cannot afford any cosmetic procedures....i'm also bald.

any thoughts? i'm 46 years of age now.

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EzBriZ · 41-45, F Best Comment

In reality there's probably nothing wrong with your face, but i get the feeling. I feel there's a lot wrong with mine too and have bad dysphoria because of it.

If you really do have something wrong though, a good personality can always make up for it when it comes to attracting partners. Good looks just get you in the door, a good personality lets you stay over for a while.

youngheart · 31-35, F

I agree.

darkmere1983 · 46-50, M

@EzBriZ thankyou so much for your words, i struggle with a lot of insecurity about my appearance, i think some of it is vanity...your words really helped, thanks for answering.