Do you think it would work out if
If long term I could be with someone who casually drinks but I don’t drink ever?
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Anielka · F
If he just drinks 1 or 2 every now and then I would say yes, but if he likes drinking on the weekends or with friends even if he can control it and not let it get out of hand by falling drunk on the floor I would say no, the main reason is he's gonna want you to drink with him.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@Anielka You are right...if he likes to drink with his friends.....then he's distancing himself from his girlfriend on weekends.....and probably NOT just having one or two. I've heard too many girls being alone or with their friends because the boyfriend wants to be with his friends and drink...NOT GOOD AT ALL.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Midlifemale I have another perspective to those stories. The guy is disrespected at home and the girl gets mad when he takes distance to set a boundary and enjoy himself a good time where he feels respected and appreciated unlike how she treats him.
There's always a logic reason to a man who don't wanna come home. And more often than not, he don't feel safe with his own partner.
There's always a logic reason to a man who don't wanna come home. And more often than not, he don't feel safe with his own partner.