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Why do I get so intensely sexual & turned on after I'm extremely sad?

It's wild lol it's like I crave this intense affection or something 😭

Like I wanna be cuddled & kissed & loved..
Then that leads into my other body parts wanting attention too
Rilyn · 31-35, F
I get that too. I'm not sure why it happens o.o
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Rilyn I think it's just wanting affection & for some of us, physical is an immediate way to feel that. Plus the release of those feelings is so relaxing so it's maybe like, self help, almost
SW-User
@Rilyn Trident power.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@ChiefJustWalks It's a comfort. I believe. So long as it's safe.

@SW-User Indeed 🔱⚡
deadgerbil · 26-30
Transform into a gigachad. Put that energy into lifting

deadgerbil · 26-30
@BeefySenpie that too. Roided out of his mind
@deadgerbil Glad you didn't roid up to pass your test son. Proud of you 🥲
SW-User
@deadgerbil Is he even real 😅
SW-User
I'm the complete opposite but in your case I think that's a mechanism of compensation.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User oh woah 😶
😅 I feel like you’re always intensely sexual and turned on. Maybe what you’re craving is just closeness and connection sex can be apart of that without it being viewed as a negative thing. Your love language may just be physical touch and that may just be a need for you most when in moments of distress and sadness.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Stark yeah I guess I always am lol.. it's just so intense rn.
I really do love physical touch & it helps so much.. I need you baby c'mere 🥺
@ChiefJustWalks ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
On my way 😋
Beetlejuice68 · 56-60, M
This sounds like a sympathy fuck post to me!
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Beetlejuice68 only if its from my girl 🥵🖤
SW-User
Sounds like you just long for connection
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User I wanna be loved & stuff lol
SailorMarz · F
That's me when I'm stressed
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SailorMarz it's tough yo 🤗
Sometimes people think it's weird like "how do you go from sad to super sexual?" & I'm like idk... Maybe it just helps me get through it.

Then especially if you have heavy feelings for the person, they're your comfort & the sex feels so much more intimate too
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
You're a sad fucker
SW-User
yeah im that way in general where i always see men as an escape from my own issues and feel that's romantic, my friend says i watch too many movies lol
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User nah, it's just your way of expressing yourself & your emotions probably. They can be strong sometimes
Reject · 26-30, M
I’m sort of the same way. Sadness makes me especially affectionate. So much so sadness and love are synonymous to me.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Reject same dude. I get sad & I suddenly I start wanting intense affection & it doesn't stop lol
It's like what people do when they eat their feelings. You're stressed or down and looking for an escape.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Spoiledbrat maybe.. but it has to be genuine too. If it's just playing a part then I don't want it 🥺
Maybe this is why makeup sex is so intense.
SW-User
This is understandable man.
SW-User
Comfort and intimacy go hand in hand
Brain association ?

Our sexuality can get wired when we are really young.
I think i read somewhere that the sexual response part of our brain is close to the reward dopamine part.

Plus.....its partly chemical : whatever part of the brain that dips in saddness , naturally raises afterwards to compensate. Just like after a high , there is a low.

Like the brain seeking chemical equilibrium 🤷‍♀️
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@OogieBoogie makes sense. I figure there's gotta be logical reasons behind it 👌 like sex just makes you feel good too & it's a stress reliever in many ways so that could have a lot to do with why my body wants it
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
me too bestie
Nutshell29 · 26-30, F
Maybe you just crave it so much you think about how it must feel to be comforted liked hugged and how the other person can make you feel better? I don't know why it happens
SW-User
I feel that, except for me it's less "cuddled/kissed/loved" and more "ravished". 😳
SW-User
You're so sexy you turn yourself on of course 😙
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User that would be a whole new level of self love 😂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I do too. I think it’s cause I was just so sad that I want to feel good again and orgasming does that.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@iamonfire696 that's what I was thinking on a base level.. but it seems like theres a lot of reasons for it too. Perhaps that's just one of mine
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@ChiefJustWalks I am sure there are lots of reasons but I think that one can be applied to many people.

 
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