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Is emotional, mental and verbal abuse enough to get me away from this man and into a domestic violence shelter? I think he's trying to push me to the point of ending my life and I'm trying really hard to stay in a positive mindset. Currently going through postpartum depression and he adds on the stress knowing that he doesn't allow me to take my meds and push me to my breaking point. Expects me to do for him and the baby and i literally no energy or anything left for myself. I literally don't even eat during the day because my appetite completely leaves due to me being stressed. I keep my mouth shut and he takes advantage then i reach my breaking point and he calls me crazy, says everything is my fault including him not being able to see him other children. Even though i have no contact with them or their mom.I've been doing really well lately controlling my emotions and he's becoming more and more abusive lately. Talking to me with no respect, keeping me isolated from my family, cursing me out when I go to the store with him sleeping, don't want me to go anywhere with the baby, wants me to not work and completely depend on him and then neglect me and my child, don't allow me to take my medicine or get any time for myself, trying to force me to take birth control and if I don't he completely ignores my needs( affection, quality time, comfort), my love language and being physical and he will not even come near me on purpose, had me lie to important people to avoid paying child support, told me if I didn't live with him he wouldn't do anything for her at all and wont claim her. I just want to know if this is enough to get me out of here. He does a lot of other illegal things to avoid child support and irs as well.
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You must leave a person who is abusive towards you and not being a responsible parent to your child.Seek out support from your family and child services and ask for immediate shelter due to the danger your child is being put through.Then plan on finding work to support your child, because in this case, your child needs only you and a safe environment. Goodluck.
Fantasyproject · 26-30, F
@LilMissAnonyMOUSE leaving is not optional, every choice i make is in her best interest. This is not a family, this is not working. Shelters upstate won't let you just come if someone is willing to let you stay with them and he is. That's why I was trying to get in a domestic violence shelter instead, I have no proof of my baby being in immediate danger because he doesn't do anything to her. He just doesn't get her what she needs when she needs it just because I asked.