doodatt · 61-69, M
Best to forget and move on. When one door closes, another one opens.

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Fucked if I know 🤷♂️
Fucked if I know 🤷♂️
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I do question it from time to time. The last time I experienced this was at the hands of someone I thought I was pretty close with at one time. We complimented each other often. Saw ourselves in the other and had that kind of kinship that shouldn’t have brought about a block. We hadn’t had many exchanges lately so she unfriended me out of the blue and said it was an SW glitch. I took note of that excuse as she added me back. Then when I was going to reply to a comment she had left on my post, I noticed she had blocked me. She’s extremely sensitive and emotional and doesn’t shy away from showcasing that here. She’s who I used to be so I had empathy for her, but I chose to evolve into a more logic person after I saw the pain I was unnecessarily inficting on others and more so myself. She’s not there yet and that’s not on me. So just blocked her back because I helped her all I could over the years to no avail, but I did silently wish her well on her journey. Even though she hit that block button first, people like her tend to reverse it…but my time is done.
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I am sorry that happened. It’s hurtful and I don’t blame you for blocking back.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@iamonfire696 Eh, seems to be the SW way. There’s too many lost and hurting souls here not to encounter the effects of some of them. Just have to have the shield up more when dealing with them.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart yes that’s very true.
helenS · 36-40, F
Yes it's a mystery sometimes.
I had some very nice and insightful discussions about classical guitar playing with another Lady on here, where we focused on Tárrega's Recuerdos de la Alhambra.
We never exchanged pm's but it was always a kind and friendly discussion. And then for no apparent reason she blocked me 😐
Never heard of her again.
I had some very nice and insightful discussions about classical guitar playing with another Lady on here, where we focused on Tárrega's Recuerdos de la Alhambra.
We never exchanged pm's but it was always a kind and friendly discussion. And then for no apparent reason she blocked me 😐
Never heard of her again.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
yeah I think it's because i was friends with someone she didn't like.
I was blocked by someone I thought I was getting on really well with, I have no idea why and am resigned to never knowing. It makes me sad because if I upset someone I'd rather know how so I can take a look at my behaviour and apologise and try and become a better person.
Dusty101 · F
@Mindfulness I feel the same way! 🤗🤗🤗
@Dusty101 if I've upset them in some way then I'm sorry, I just don't know what I did wrong. It really makes you question yourself. If someone doesn't want to speak to me then that's ok, I don't presume to believe everyone likes me, just blocking with no explanation really shook me. I've not been on here a month yet, maybe I'm just naive and that's normal behaviour on SW? 🤷♂️
bookerdana · M
I think a lotta gossip🔊 in PM
Dusty101 · F
@bookerdana intriguing!
bookerdana · M
@Dusty101 I've seen people delete because of unfounded "whisper campaigns"
Yes, I noticed yesterday that I was blocked by someone I used to have great laughs with. I respect their choice, but it did surprise me.
Dusty101 · F
@NerdyPotato it's kinda unfair.. But thankfully I'm not losing sleep over it! 😂
Elisbch · M
Yes, I do get curious about this but don't give it much thought anymore. I think it's easier for them to cast people aside than deal with their own issues. Cast someone aside and they believe their issues go away.
Not good at saying goodbye? They think, block them... issue gone. Disagreement in there mind they don't want to talk about? They block, again, their issue disappears. It's about them I really believe. Same with ghosting. This makes it easier for them.
I seem to be ghosted. And again this year just in time for Christmas from someone whom pretended to be a friend. 🤷🏻♂️
I most likely will not block, but I won't ever answer again.
Not good at saying goodbye? They think, block them... issue gone. Disagreement in there mind they don't want to talk about? They block, again, their issue disappears. It's about them I really believe. Same with ghosting. This makes it easier for them.
I seem to be ghosted. And again this year just in time for Christmas from someone whom pretended to be a friend. 🤷🏻♂️
I most likely will not block, but I won't ever answer again.
PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M
I think about it sometimes but it doesn't bother me much. I have blocked a person once without explanation because she said something really racist in a post that wasn't mine.
Dusty101 · F
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether I'd do that too... That's out of order!

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That’s why I don’t trust people online. You never know who you are interacting with. They can be two faced just like people offline. Offline I’ve had many people ghost me which is normal. People just aren’t friendly anymore .
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User I've been through that with online friends here.
I can guarantee that there is one I can trust! Thank Jebus!
I can guarantee that there is one I can trust! Thank Jebus!

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@Dusty101 I’m glad you can trust someone. Lol
Oster1 · M
I never block or mute. I have never seen you be other than sweet. I have been blocked by people I never interacted with. People who simply disagree. Who knows. It does bother me at times and that’s just natural.
Oster1 · M
@Dusty101 OMG! WOW! You are absolutely sweeter than honey!
I am so surprised! You just made me feel so goooood! You made my Saturday morning and gave me the best start. I will carry these hugs, the whole weekend! Once again thank you, so much. I felt each and every one.
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🥰😘
I am so surprised! You just made me feel so goooood! You made my Saturday morning and gave me the best start. I will carry these hugs, the whole weekend! Once again thank you, so much. I felt each and every one.
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🥰😘
crimsoncloves · 31-35, F
The way this site is these days, I just assume someone had a political objection to something I said on some level. 🤷🏻♀️
Dusty101 · F
@crimsoncloves could be or they're just idiots!

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It's happened. I become confused and mildly curious. It lasts about 10 seconds, then I let it go. I assume that whatever happened, they had an issue with something they saw in which I was involved. I figure if someone is that sensitive, it's better they blocked me. I only block people for being extremely rude and nasty to myself or others or betraying a trust.
BabyLonia · F
Doeant bother me, I was recently blocked by a few people because I challenged a popular user here
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@BabyLonia I like what you stand up for.
YoMomma ·
maybe they didn't like something you said elsewhere to someone else..
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Its ok i have unblocked you! 🙄
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@SW-User language young lady! Dont want to double block you 🧐

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@Shutterbug deww eeettt 🤬 👿
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@SW-User dont want you to miss out on my thought provoking witty posts 😏
TheSirfurryanimalWales · 61-69, M
Has happened to me....we always got on,having first met on another site.No idea why i was blocked.
Her loss.
Her loss.
Dusty101 · F
@TheSirfurryanimalWales totally get that, gotta start thinking that way!
DragonFruit · 70-79, M
It is baffling and I would have liked to at least know why.
One person blocked me after having nothing but nice things to say in response to my recent posts (not even any evidence of disagreement about anything).
We had been friends here and had been supportive of each other for a couple of years.
I get that I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea, and I can understand being blocked by some people who never interacted with me, probably based on my comments and profile...but when someone has been friendly with me for a while and then blocks me, I don't know why.
One person blocked me after having nothing but nice things to say in response to my recent posts (not even any evidence of disagreement about anything).
We had been friends here and had been supportive of each other for a couple of years.
I get that I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea, and I can understand being blocked by some people who never interacted with me, probably based on my comments and profile...but when someone has been friendly with me for a while and then blocks me, I don't know why.
I’ve noticed that happening too.

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It's frustrating when no explanation is given
Ducky · 31-35, F
I have noticed that, lol. Even people on my old account who were always friendly but blocked me then for no known reason and did the exact same on this account. I don’t care though. Whatever their problem is is their problem. But if they ever unblock me and comment on my posts trying to be all friendly again, I’m going to tell them I have nothing to say to them. I’m not playing those stupid games.
Ducky · 31-35, F
@Dusty101 I feel the same way. People who I’ve never interacted blocking me doesn’t bother me much. But when I’ve been kind to them - and I am with most people so long as they don’t cross me - I’m like forget them too. It’s why I only keep a tight knit group of friends that even smaller than before. ❤️
All the time, but I think they are only interested in the best of me and not the worst, and I know some I have been close with on here have seen the worst in me and disappeared and my worst side is not directed at them, they may have seen how I reacted to been given a hard time in here which has been more frequent of late.

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Yeah. I get blocked out of the blue as well. Their loss. Lolz
Oster1 · M
@SW-User Just think what they have done to themselves. They will never ever see the latest creation from the most renowned Fried Chicken Artist in the World! What were they thinking! 🤷♂️ 😊🌷
666Maggotz · F
Yeah but I’ve been told I come off as jerk without even realizing it, so it’s cool.
Dusty101 · F
@666Maggotz at least you were clued in as to why you were blocked. 🤗

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Sometimes peeps just get annoyed or irritated with people here cause it's such a tiny community and many are here a lot. It could be familiarity breeds contempt. That's a thought
masterofyou · 80-89, M
Yes I have been blocked by the one I love and she said she loves me... Strange isn't it... Yes it hurts and you don't need this kind of love...
Viper · M
Yep sometimes you just wonder
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Yup. All the time.
Its hapoened to me lots. Abd ive been blocked by groups of ladies who seened to enbeace ne as a friend, then after a fall out with one because she was nasty to me on a post, a number ousted me over the next few weeks.
Its hapoened to me lots. Abd ive been blocked by groups of ladies who seened to enbeace ne as a friend, then after a fall out with one because she was nasty to me on a post, a number ousted me over the next few weeks.
ExtremeNext · 36-40
It happens to all of us I often look at my friends list you notice sometimes people missing then look them up only to be blocked
Frickin weirdos all of em
Frickin weirdos all of em
Dusty101 · F
@ExtremeNext freaken weirdos🤣🤣🤣

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Hi. You just shouldn't take this place too serious. Try not to let it hurt your feelings. You could block me now. Fuck it. Try to use this place in your way, not theirs..
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User I know what you mean... But it gets to me when I've only been kind... No hate on any of their posts!

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I've realised how blocked I was on my old account and many very nice people blocked me, I'm upset as I don't know what I was doing to upset so many people, I feel like I need to check myself and hold my tongue and not shit post etc.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I could never imagine blocking you.

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@iamonfire696 thank you, I appreciate that 💕
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User you are welcome 💞
quitwhendone · M
I need to learn about this f**k fiddlers have.
Dusty101 · F
@quitwhendone tee hee! 🎉
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Happened to me recently.
But I think its mainly people chatting shit or hung up your friends with another user
But I think its mainly people chatting shit or hung up your friends with another user
Dusty101 · F
@Gangstress I just don't get it... I mean nothing at all happened.😭

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many who block me, i've never had any interaction with, none, nada.
They just weird asses
They just weird asses
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User swamp donkeys... Deffo!

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@Dusty101 that's a good mental image 🤣 ..
Also, i was thinking, if "randoms" block me, those might be alts to some of those seemingly "good" people we see here everyday .. playing jackyl and hyde?
They can kiss my hyde ✌️
Also, i was thinking, if "randoms" block me, those might be alts to some of those seemingly "good" people we see here everyday .. playing jackyl and hyde?
They can kiss my hyde ✌️
Zonuss · 46-50, M
It doesnt matter. We are living in a screwed up world Dusty. People have some serious mental issues that are going unresolved. They are on the edge. They are feeling confused and conflicted. They are scared and they dont even know why. I see this all the time out here on the beach.
This is a broken world filled with broken people. And they let themselves bleed on others around them. So its best to just stay as normal as possible and forget the bs. Thank you friend. You have always been one of the real ones to me. 🙂
This is a broken world filled with broken people. And they let themselves bleed on others around them. So its best to just stay as normal as possible and forget the bs. Thank you friend. You have always been one of the real ones to me. 🙂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Most of the time I am blocked and don’t know why but when it’s a friend it’s hurtful. Same thing as ghosting someone.


































