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Is it alright to drop all your past failures and start over?

I was thinking of leaving my past behind. All the dumb stuff I did, the crappy people in my life, negative emotions, everything bad that’s in my life, I want to leave it all behind and move onto a new life.

I know my past will always be a part of me. My past makes me who I am, but holding onto negativity hasn’t helped me. The only things worth keeping with me are the painful lessons of my failures, and drop anything that isn’t beneficial to my wellbeing. Like the “friends” that stabbed me in my back. I don’t want to hate them anymore, but I also won’t acknowledge them. It’s forgiven, not forgotten.
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Adrift · 61-69, F
I did that and it was liberating.
You have to recognize what habits and things you allow that keep leading you back to the same place and attracting the same type of friends.
Its a long process too learn those things about yourself.
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@Adrift lovely. Nice to know how it felt for you. Habits can definitely stop us from changing for the better if we don’t recognize the patterns. I’ll keep that in mind. Life is a lifelong process of learning. Thank you. 😄