I Don't Need To Make Fun Of Others To Get "self-esteem"

Everyone is equal and has equal value. Anything about us that can't be sensed through seeing, touching, tasting, smelling, or hearing is imaginary, a story, and not real. Qualities such as beautiful, intelligent, tall, skinny, lovable, interesting, unusual, and more are subjective, intangible, abstract, imaginary, a story, and not real and are opinions. They can't be false or true because Person A can view Person B as boring while Person C can view Person B as interesting. Additionally we aren't always boring; there are other times when we're interesting. Qualities, which we describe ourselves, aren't constant because we are dynamic. We change. What is part of reality is what is ob<x>jective, tangible, concrete, and real, and can be sensed through hearing, smelling, tasting, touching, and seeing. These include eyes, ears, arms, fingers, toes, feet, legs, heart, brain, muscles, fat, bones, body organs, skin, hair, etc. When we don't compare or judge our thoughts, feelings, behavior, and possessions then we like ourselves as we are. There is no more or less valuable and no best or worst. We also have different levels of ability or competence in many areas, but these numbers don't determine whether or not we're better or more valuable than others. These numbers just indicate where we are skill level wise. It doesn't mean that we'll remain at those levels forever. We have the capacity to improve, grow, and increase those numbers if we have the desire, and also the potential to decrease those numbers by lack of practice. We have different interests, preferences, and passions, which determine what we master and choose to focus on. We are essentially bodies who have likes and dislikes. When someone dislikes us it doesn't mean that things are wrong with us or that we are bad; it means that we aren't a match or a fit for that person. Being disliked is an opinion. Someone else can like us. It also doesn't mean that things are right with us or that we are good. Again, being liked is an opinion. When we don't judge or compare ourselves with anyone we love ourselves as we are, just for no reason.