Do you feel unwanted?

yeah by most of society but that is the rub. All of us are unwanted by most. Your job in order to fidn connections is to focus in the small group that do "want you" that could be for friendships, business dealing, romantic engagements ect.

I think so many of us focus on rejection as opposed to seeing rejection as a natual and re-occuring occurance and instead focusing on finding connections that have more substance / value.