On Simping
You simp for people because your early relationships convinced you that there is something wrong with you and the only safe, reliable relationship is one in which you overcompensate for someone else's lack of emotional availability.
Thankfully, it is easy to just run across people who are emotionally unavailable who can provide you with a chunk of time where you feel value or even love before it all comes crashing down and you end up alone, wretched, and confused just the way you started.
Healthy relationships involve a calm, mutual exchange of emotional expression and attachment. That's what you deserve. That's what we all deserve.
Thankfully, it is easy to just run across people who are emotionally unavailable who can provide you with a chunk of time where you feel value or even love before it all comes crashing down and you end up alone, wretched, and confused just the way you started.
Healthy relationships involve a calm, mutual exchange of emotional expression and attachment. That's what you deserve. That's what we all deserve.
26-30, M
