I Am Always Improving Myself

The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.

C. JoyBell C.

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Reject · 26-30, M

... and the only way any of that is possible, is if you know how to blame yourself before others.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Reject but not take the blame for the sake of others coz that doesnt help them.

Reject · 26-30, M

@RubySoo There's no such thing as taking the blame for someone else. They decide what's worth blaming or not regardless of how you feel. That's their choice to make, not yours.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Reject but sometimes in our own minds we say ' it was my fault' when....we know it wasnt. Sometimes...we do that with tge intention of easing somebody elses guilt. But. ..like you say...what they feel is their choice so it doesnt really help them

Reject · 26-30, M

@RubySoo I see what you mean. We can absolutely try to influence how someone feels about something. Still, that can only do so much. Nowadays I just focus on the reality that we cannot ever make someone feel anything. The more we try, the worse we make the relationship.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Reject yes sweetheart. A lesson you and i need to accept.....for our own well being x