You have two choices with decision making in life:

1.) Do what makes you happy.

2.) Do what others make you do.


Moral of the story: it's okay to listen to people's advice, and past experiences. But in the end it's your decision and we all have some common sense on doing what we want for ourselves. Life is a personal learning experience. 💜

idk why anyone is saying it wont be possible to have a family/marriage with an older man, that sort of thing is not just possible, but quite common, I'd have said.

What do you not get from guys your age?

Duuuuude, fuck it. I'm dating a WAY older dude, and I told him I may want a family when I'm older, just speaking long term and all. He said he'd want that with me as well. Just gotta find the right one, I guess.