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Anger and love.

How will you deal with a person who is all nice and friendly with you and loves you but the moment he gets angry he loses it.He shouts and hurts you in very damaging ways leaving you in tears and hurt.But once the anger is gone he seems to be sorry for his attitude tries to make it up with gifts and stuff.This process is very tiring.Any advice how to deal with this? :)
ForLove
Jesus would love that person in a very persistent but detached way. Jesus would pray for that person every day, and believe and hope for their best. Jesus would use every moment of interaction with that person to be a good influence on them. However, Jesus would not be upset from His course of mission if that person wasted everything that Jesus did for them. Jesus would give everything, but not requiring any improvement by the other person. Jesus would not give so much to that one person so as to neglect anyone else. Jesus would always address the most important concerns and people first.
GniteMoonTiWillalwaysLY
from personal experience I would ask him if he would be willing to go to some sort of counceling or anger management to resolve/work through his issues and get some help. If he doesn't take it seriously or just blows it off all together LEAVE the relationship ASAP. It only esclates from here and trust me the only think that will change is you becoming a shell of the person you use to be.
JoannaBe
This is what abusers have been described like. This is why some women stay with men who beat them up and otherwise abuse them because once the men "snap out of it" they are sorry and love them and give gifts etc. It may start with verbal anger and escalate to physical over time. If it were me, I would break up with such a man.
Moonii · 26-30, F
But his anger issues is not his fault.things in life lead him to be the way he is.if we start leaving broken people then who will guide them or heal them?
But yes you are right i guess. :)
DestinyDivineXD
He needs to resolve the issue. He needs to realize he has anger issues and work towards fixing them. If he doesn't try then it's not worth it. You can only apologize for the same thing so many times before it stops meaning anything
brummy37
Does he really love you if he can be nasty and say hurtful things? Nobody desrves to be treated like that and have there emotions played on
Foush
I think when he is angry you just leave him and stay in another room... until his anger went away.
Moonii · 26-30, F
Yup i go in mute mode and that helps.
SociallyAwkwardGirl
Hm doesn't really sound worth it. Are you sure you want to deal with it still?
OmyTVC15
get as far away from them as you can and stay away
pearllederman
i would dump someone like that
pearllederman
i would dump someone like that
ThingI
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