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What do I do if i have two crushes?

I don't want too hurt one of them especially if she was a crush on me, i dont want to be hurt, and will one of them still like me when im female if it works out with one of them? One of them is in person while the other is online...

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MrMobos

Well I will tell you having feelings for multiple people hurts like hell and it tears you apart inside (or atleast in my experience it has been painful) honestly though you need to pick one and stick with them and the sooner you pick the less it will hurt

Gorgeoushobo

if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.
-Johnny Depp

IceMareen · 22-25, T

That isn't all true... But ive never talked to either of them... I've just observed and "obsessed" (imagined I was able to talk to the one in person, wished I could see the one that's online) over them...

BookOfShadows

Don't worry your only young enjoy it, don't grow up too fast you'll have time for girls later on in life

IceMareen · 22-25, T

Yeah... I know but I'm slightly emotionally unstable with out someone to care for me... AKA, I go into a deep depression. So I can't really help myself when it comes to relationships, and Im really feminine when in a relationship... I try to hold on for as long as possible, and im even best friends with all my ex's...

BookOfShadows

How old are you? I know what its like to get attached when my last boyfriend left me I became very weak and just wanted to die but then I had to get over him, I did and then I realized it wasn't healthy to be that attached to him, to rely on him like I did. I grew a lot from that experience and got stronger than before. If you are really attached like unhealthy its obsession and you think its deep love but its not you'll probably be blind to what I'm saying here but believe me learn to be alone before taking on a relationship else it will always end in disaster

IceMareen · 22-25, T

Im almost 15... And I do see what by our saying but I only get an unhealthy obsession when im in the relationship, and just wanna protect and make sure they are okay after it ends... That's why I'm still best friends with them... And they help me find more stuff about myself and whats best for me (since we wind up knowing almost everything about eachother after a month)

ThiaLen

Listen to your heart,be yourself to them and whoever accepts you is the one :) Or just let them go both if you don't want to hurt anybody :)

1REALAMERICAN

grow up

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