if your GF/BF suddenly disappeared, and you tried everything but there was no way you could communicate with her/him and after a while he/she came back. --would you give them a chance to explain what happened?
Yes. I had this once. My internet went down and I knew her through the internet so we couldn't communicate for a week. So after I got my internet back, I explained it to her and we still remained together even after that event.
Treasure7
I would give them the benefit of doubt, hear what they have to say.