Anyone else annoyed when people say, "it's love at first sight."
It's like.. You don't even know the freggen person. Anyone? Or am I alone on this one?
22-25, F
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JoeEDangerously
Thing is this is very hard to explain to a person who has not experienced it. But I assure you it does exist. You don't really need to know a person to love them, as strange as that sounds. It's not lust, it's not infatuation, it's... More. Like I said, it's so hard to explain, but if you do ever experience it, you will immediately understand what everyone's talking about. You will know and there will be no question about it.
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SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
But you didn't even know her.. You simply had seen her.. If she was in rags, would you have felt the same?
JoeEDangerously
Maybe not, but she wasn't. Under the circumstances that were there we just immediately clicked in a very deep way. I know this is hard to understand. I really do. But that is what happened. I just immediately knew she was someone special.
SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
So.. Did you guys talk first beforehand or was it at first glance? I'm not trying to be mean, in all honesty, I'm not. I just.. yunno... Trying to understand this...
Idonwannadie
No, but it seems your frustrationtolerance seems to reach an all time low.
SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
I can tolerate things, yunno? It was an opionated question. Reason to point to that?
Idonwannadie
And opionation is nothing more than unreasonable frustration. Lighten up, and take a joke. And FYI, love at 1st sight does happen, a lot. There is a pleora of research on it. It even is stronger than love built pver time. But I guess, a little fact like that, won't bother your opinion.
SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
I doubt... I just am fed up with everyone claiming it. How could you "love" someone you just see? If the person was horribly unnattractive, would the person still "love" them? They probably wouldn't and skip out on a lovely person... It's first infatuation... Not necessaily lust.. But the beginning. I just don't think years of devotion can be summerized at a glance. I just want the term love to have meaning. I'm tired of it getting confused, that's all..
jeremyleaves
there is something beautiful about the idea, but at the same time that is really creepy of a thing to feel towards a stranger.
SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
I agree.. It's a bit worrysome.. But a pleasent idea at times..
WildSpectrumArts
No, I'm not annoyed at it because it happened to my husband.
SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
But wouldn't you say that you had a magnetic attraction for him instead of love? I mean.... There's a difference. Not to be a jackass.
KingofSwords
I was attracted to Wilde at first sight. She didn't have the same level of attraction for me as I did for her or at least not initially. I was truly stunned when I saw her. I fell instantly in love.EP Link
Crusafixiation
Yes, it takes time for love, as well as respect and other such things.
SleepingSupernova · 22-25, F
Exactly....