How Do You Fall... Out Of Love..?

Wow I saw 11 answers and almost didn't answer assuming that anything I could say must have been said but I guess not. A broken heart can be one of the hardest things to overcome and at your age I know it feels like you'll never be able to move on and no one will ever fill the emptiness that she left behind. No one can tell you how long it's going to take because every relationship is so different and everyone loves differently and some people hold onto emotions longer then others do. I can tell you that I spent over a year with a broken heart after my first love and it was an agonizing year but eventually life distracted me and without even realizing it I started to let go. I was convinced that I'd never love again or find anyone that made could make me feel the way he had. I was completely wrong the truth is that we're not always meant to spend a lifetime with the people we fall in love with. I know it hurts and it sucks but sometimes love comes into your life as a stepping stone. As time goes by you'll eventually be able to look back from a different perspective and see why it was never meant to be. It may seem like you'll never love again but you will and I know it's not what you want to hear but your so young... As you get older and you really start to know yourself better you'll be able to find an even deeper connection with someone. Once I finally moved on I met my husband and we've been married for two years now. I'm still absolutely in love with him and the connection we have is deeper then I could have imagined I'm so thankful that I ended up with him. Anyway I hope you find some way to move on soon and find someone that takes your breath away until then try to smile it'll get better I promise. <3

I've never understood that...

You're young... but when a couple divorces (as I have) I just don't see how that happens.

I have children and it isn't like I could ever stop loving them. My ex and I are friends and I have a wonderful BF now for the past yr but I still love my ex.

I think people must not really have been in love in the first place...

To me, love isn't boastful, prideful etc... If someone really loves another, they couldn't intentionally hurt them...

in my experience,, it's ur mate who does that for you

I don't think you do... you learn to move forward..

Open the window and push them out!! Lmao ;)

boring boyfriend and less dates...

I would suggest stairs.

I guesh you climb out