He dumped me today after almost 6 years and a little girl and he wants to be my friend.

Yes she is his daughter and he does have a good relationship with her. But when push comes to shove he cannot take care of her on his own.

I think you two should just focus on your child right now then try to mend the relationship. It's gonna take the both of you to take care of her. In the meanwhile, help him so he can be capable of doing this on his own in case something happens.

There is no mending this. I read his facebook messages which he left open on the laptop. He was messing with another female, 3 as a matter of fact. He was with her when I went home for the holidays. So yea there is no mending this

I cannot help him if he won't let me. He has gotten worse since his brother passed in November. It was just pretty much a matter of time before we split. He has just been doing to much drinking. But like I said I can't help him if I'm not the one he wants help from.

Well he should want to do anything concerning his child. you two don't have to be besties but you have to come to some sort of healthy relationship for the child. Compromise.

I am compromising by moving and bringing his child to him every other weekend. Hell he just asked me to do his taxes and I will do that but after that If it doesn't have to do with my little girl I don't have anything to say

Well your taking steps to helping him financially, that has a lot to do with the child. Good for you. I agree keep it at a "child only" minimum.