why is almost everyone so judgemental and mean on this site

Because it's easy when you are typing behind a screen, you can be spineless and cowardly and don't have to face the possibility of getting a kick.

Because they lack the courage to do it elsewhere. Or maybe you needed to be taken down a peg. No idea, I don't know you.

Because they can ... here you can do anything without having to fear any consequences (except getting banned or ignored).

hardly..you just werent lucky I guess..there are mean people, but good people too..more good than mean.

Not everyone... but there are more than enough who behave that way.

I wish I knew....:(

people are judgemental irl also.