why is almost everyone so judgemental and mean on this site

Because they can ... here you can do anything without having to fear any consequences (except getting banned or ignored).

Not everyone... but there are more than enough who behave that way.

hardly..you just werent lucky I guess..there are mean people, but good people too..more good than mean.

I wish I knew....:(

people are judgemental irl also.

Because they lack the courage to do it elsewhere. Or maybe you needed to be taken down a peg. No idea, I don't know you.

Because it's easy when you are typing behind a screen, you can be spineless and cowardly and don't have to face the possibility of getting a kick.