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What does this mean, and will this come to pass?

So i had a day dream that I finally met the man who was right for me (or so i thought). we dated for a year or two, and then i decided for him to meet my family; So we had dinner and apparently he and my sister started to get too well acquainted. All of a sudden my boyfriend cheated on me with my sister and now he wants to date and marry her. when i find out i move to the far west side of the U.S. and i cry and i can barely eat or sleep. i feel torn and i can't ever trust a guy again. the day dream ends there. What does this mean? Will this really happen to me or is this my anxiety kicking in from me continuously getting dumped and passed over for someone else? Need positive feedback

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Imsorryforbeingme

It's definitely insecurity issues, but what is interesting is it involves you family in this way. Perhaps subconsciously you feel you are not as good as your sister.

BlackBeautyBrittany23 · 31-35, F

Well i wish i could be my sister sometimes. i mean shes beautiful, truly beautiful and so is my other sis. they both are; whenever all three of us go out, they are the ones receiving compliments and such. I barely get a "h"i or a "hello" from people. This is everywhere i go; and the sad part is, No matter what i say or do to try to make myself more appealing. it either comes off as i "try" too hard or that it doesn't look right or that i'm not trying hard enough.

Imsorryforbeingme

Just be you and I think you'll be fine. Don't make it a competition, it's not, you are special in your own right

BlackBeautyBrittany23 · 31-35, F

If only others would see that or could see that; seems the more i am myself, the less people wanna be with me

Imsorryforbeingme

There are people out there that are waiting to meet you, they just don't know it yet, lol. You are special, you have much to give!