feelings of a what I think is a turmoil

the feelings being downed and raised up at the same time confuses me the things that happen they happen for a reason we all know that but when something gos ok and then for it to be made out bad you have to wonder what the hell was going on for the other person. life is like a stone that you skip on water you have to keep trying to get that perfect skip without that the stone will sink down with the past stone you skipped. I try to skip but sometimes there is a stone being skipped and they hit so they both sink together so I skip with the ston in hope they skip perfect riding each others ripples