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I don't get it (Please Help)

So i went to this girls house whom I've had a crush on for many years. So i went to her party to meet her parents and they knew I was coming an hour early for they could meet me with no distractions and they did. The party seemed really good and her parents and siblings were nice but the next day she told me that her parents thought I was too rude and snobby because I asked a friend of my to not through my jacket and her mom asked me what type of jacket it was and I said its a Couch. So they thought I was bragging about my wealth to her. We also went on a walk and she wouldn't talk to me so I talk to my friend minnie who is also a friend of hers but minnie is in love with me to the extreme. Even though it didn't end well for me at her house I did find out that they thought I was a pretty boy. I was really nervous about going to her house but i've ask to go back to her house to retry and make a better impression to her parents. But I just don't know what to do next.

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deepscar

why don't you invite the folks back to your home, and your territory; let them know you in your personal setting; I wouldn't try hard or over do it with your actions or words; Perhaps just a little gift - flowers - and an acknowledgement, "we didn't really get to know each other that well the other night, I'd like to take the time now to get acquainted with you."

DillianBlake · 26-30, M

I've invited them to dinner with us to a four star restaurant,and invited their daughter to my 16th birthday party

deepscar

that sounds like a good first step on your part.

pondman

When you are invited to someone's house you should show some gratitude-- thank them. But if it doesn't work out you need to accept it. They may be overly protective of their daughter. That's what parents do.

DillianBlake · 26-30, M

I know and I am more than gratified that they do that cause I don't want her to fall for the wrong man even if its not me. I thank them for everything that they gave me food drinks and the stay. walking in and out of the house I said thank you.

jenna3

just be humble pretty boy, no one likes a show off. be funny and humble, it goes a long way :)

DillianBlake · 26-30, M

To be honest I was trying to dress normally. My parents thought it wasn't enough they thought i look like a red neck.

jenna3

lol well i don't agree with red necks. there isn't anything wrong with looking nice. you'll do fine next time just stay positive honey

HereIBeWoman

You never get a second chance to make a first impression.

DillianBlake · 26-30, M

I know but I want them to see that I am a good christian boy who is willing to fix his problems that other see to become more likeable to them

HereIBeWoman

I'm not saying you shouldn't try. Just don't expect them to change their opinion, easily. I think your best option might be, if you get invited back; apologize for what might have seemed to be inappropriate behaviour. Explain it by saying you were nervous and trying too hard because you really like their daughter and wanted her parents to like you. Sucking up is not always a bad thing.

StarSphere

Not an easy thing to do and try to be the best you can be and let this thing go. It's hard.

Lisabv2012

and the problem is?

DillianBlake · 26-30, M

They think i'm a rude little boy who drives sports cars and wears over prices clothing

Lisabv2012

well are u that type maybe you should dress up when going to the parents house

DillianBlake · 26-30, M

I did dress up and thats why they thought that

Sesi1990

Yeah. Go back and try.

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