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What do you say to someone who is talking about killing himself?

One of the responses to the question, "What is something you've talked about doing for years, but still haven't gotten started on?" (the question of the day 2 days ago) was "Killing myself." When I first saw that, I thought that the guy who said this couldn't be serious. But then, just in case, I said, "I hope you aren't actually considering doing that." He responded, "Yes I am." I didn't know what to say to him. I suggested that he try to get some help, but he said that it just didn't seem worth it, that his life just wasn't worth living anymore.I know next to nothing about this person. All I know is that he is an EP user, male, ages 18-21. I know that this can be a difficult time in anyone's life. This is when we're trying to figure out what we want to do with our lives. We know that we need to become independent, but we don't always know how. It can be a little scary. I also know that this person isn't really my personal responsibility, but I want to help if I can.

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Speedman555

Most are looking for attention or they would just go do it. I usually let them know there are terminally ill people begging to live and that would trade in a heartbeat. Think about that. Quit being so selfish. Im always a little harsh because i think its mostly dramatic attention seeking people. Only a handful are serious. I tell them they should think about the good memories that they have in front of them too. They'd be taking away any chance of happiness for themselves.

Speedman555

I think its because 1. They are usually just looking for attention
2. People don't really understand it 3. Not sure this is a suicide support site

Speedman555

And more often than not seeking attention. I know it can be tough to tell the difference and if someone here wants to sift through them all and determine the real at risk people, thats fine. But you seem angry about the lack of understanding towards someone who ur assuming is really suicidal. My opinion is people are extremely tired of the boy who cries wolf. If you are more qualified to determine the validity of his honest intentions, then i say you're definitely onto something. But to expect people to cater to every kid who's having a tough time is unreasonable.

Speedman555

I agree with that. Kind words can help people and theyre free. Im all for that

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

I wish I knew how to tell the difference. But I'm not a psychologist. I do feel, though, that I would rather try to give someone support who isn't actually about to kill himself than assume that he's full of it and then have him actually do it. I really wish I knew, though. Of course, I also have my own life to live. I have lots of things that I need to do today. So I have to take care of myself first, and then just do what I can.