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What do you say to someone who is talking about killing himself?

One of the responses to the question, "What is something you've talked about doing for years, but still haven't gotten started on?" (the question of the day 2 days ago) was "Killing myself." When I first saw that, I thought that the guy who said this couldn't be serious. But then, just in case, I said, "I hope you aren't actually considering doing that." He responded, "Yes I am." I didn't know what to say to him. I suggested that he try to get some help, but he said that it just didn't seem worth it, that his life just wasn't worth living anymore.I know next to nothing about this person. All I know is that he is an EP user, male, ages 18-21. I know that this can be a difficult time in anyone's life. This is when we're trying to figure out what we want to do with our lives. We know that we need to become independent, but we don't always know how. It can be a little scary. I also know that this person isn't really my personal responsibility, but I want to help if I can.
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sogdianrock
hi TeresaRudolph71
Be honest and say you cannot stop him but will help if you can. Suicide is a choice. You can suggest other choices but taking responsibility for another person's choices is a mistake imho. The person wants to have the self respect of at least having chosen to live. After all if a person really wanted to kill themselves they would not be talking with you at all.
Best wishes
:)
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
Thanks. You're right, it has to be their choice either way. And hopefully this means that he still does have some hope.
Thanks again. :)
sogdianrock
hi TeresaRudolph71
respect
:)
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
Wrong that it has to be their choice? I suppose that if I knew where the person was, I could call 911 and have someone sent to where there are, but I have no idea where this person is. It's hard to feel so helpless. All I can do is just try to point them in the right direction to get some help and then hope that they take it. But I can't force them. If I were actually with this person, maybe I could.
sogdianrock
hi Cinnamonfern
well if so that is a serious matter.
Apologies
:)