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How do you go about deciding whom to add who your circle?

I have had several people add me recently, and I still haven't decided whether or not I want to add some of them. Some of them I have added, and some I have decided that I definitely don't want to add. But there are a couple of people that I'm not sure about. What factors do you take into consideration when you're deciding this? What are some dealbreakers or red flags that tell you that you don't want to add someone?

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psfromthestars

If they r a guy I look at who is in their circle, if there r only girls and a lot of them I usually don't also check experiences if they don't have any then they r probably using this as a dating AP, anyway that's just my opinion

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

That's probably true. I just checked the profile of someone who added me last night, and he had just added 225 people inside of just 3 hours. And the usernames looked like they were probably all female. So this guy is definitely using EP as a dating site, so I know that I don't want to add him.

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

Oh, and he has just 3 experiences, and one of then says "I Am Married." I'm glad I'm not his wife.

dathglas

um well i usually quickly view over there profile first before adding them and if they look over all ok for your likening and then add them

dathglas

i sent that twice lol

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

That's okay. I just ended up accidentally posting something four times. It happens.

dathglas

um well i usually quickly view over there profile first before adding them and if they look over all ok for your likening and then add them.

dathglas

um well i usually quickly view over there profile first before adding them and if they look over all ok for your likening and then add them

Daavviid

Just add everyone then filter out the assholes and pervs by blocking them

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

I suppose that would be one approach, though I would probably end up having a lot of icky conversations. I've looked at the profiles of the people who have added me, and a couple of them say that they're married but looking to become intimate with someone else. And one, who may or may not be married, says he wants an online girlfriend. So I know I don't to add those people, because I'm in a committed relationship, and I wouldn't want to be unfaithful or give anyone the wrong idea.

Daavviid

Good call

Sheenausedtobehere

I add ppl who have interesting stories, so that we can relate to each other when we chat

pearllederman

if i like them then i add them, i dont add pervs

haircutman1970

If they friend me I add them
I need friends

NerdyNudist

If we talk and share interests

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