Sun has a large gravitational force which keeps the solar system intact? Right?

My question is if sun has such a large gravitational force why can't it pull its own atoms of Hydrogen and Helium to get condensed like those of other planets and not form another planet?

Being bossy around other planets and setting its own particles and atoms free in gaseous form doesn't impress me to the least.

Sun is democratic to its own particles but authoritarian towards the others like Mercury, Venus, Earth, Mars etc?