I Am A Very Sexual Yet Shy Person

I mean... let's say a sexual girl here on SW wants to talk to me. I'm not gonna really say a whole lot. I mean, I wish I could be that guy who just wants to do nothing but talk some hot game at a girl, but I'm not gonna do that unless I know that she really does wanna talk to me instead of just wanting to talk to my dick... Maybe I'm just too much of a hopeless romantic... I'm not that good at flirting with women unless I feel at least some kind of emotional/spiritual connection.