Sex is lame I don't orgasm like I used to.

@CheekyBadger yeah it's still not too great☹️

@Linseyonthereal sexual energy comes from the brain, if you aren't able to focus on it then it won't be as good. Have you tried any mindfulness techniques - they can be quite effective. An example is (if you can) get naked outside and lie on some grass. Close your eyes and feel the sensation of the grass against your skin you can listen to the sounds of the outdoor and focus on them whilst feeling the ground and the air against you. You can do this on beach too although sand isn't as good as grass.