I'm Sexually Adventurous
Before you go thinking that being married to DW is a bed of rose petals, here are DH's answers to some comments that he hears on SW.
Q: How did you get such a sexually adventurous wife?
A: Well, I am going to take all of the credit for this one. . . Time, patience and experimentation on my part. Well, that and the fact that she discovered other men found her as sexy as I did. Then it was, “Katy, bar the door”. One caveat: be careful what you wish for.
Q: That must be great to have a wife who wants to @#$@ all the time.
A: Well, she doesn’t want to @#$@ all of the time. At least not in real life. We contend with each other's “dirty laundry” (the daily realities of life). I don't know if most men could handle her.
Q: How do I get my wife/partner to want to @#$@ all the time?
A: Read my answer to the first question. Plus, there are two perspectives and one reality involved in any relationship. Finding reality, the truth, can be hard because it might mean that YOU need to be vulnerable. DW and I have been through a lot. I have watched DW tell me the truth knowing full well that the truth may be the end of us. In the moment, the truth hurt. But today I see the bravery the truth required, and I am in awe of that bravery.
Q: Would you agree with the thought: "DH is such a lucky guy!"?
A: Yes.
Q: How did you get such a sexually adventurous wife?
A: Well, I am going to take all of the credit for this one. . . Time, patience and experimentation on my part. Well, that and the fact that she discovered other men found her as sexy as I did. Then it was, “Katy, bar the door”. One caveat: be careful what you wish for.
Q: That must be great to have a wife who wants to @#$@ all the time.
A: Well, she doesn’t want to @#$@ all of the time. At least not in real life. We contend with each other's “dirty laundry” (the daily realities of life). I don't know if most men could handle her.
Q: How do I get my wife/partner to want to @#$@ all the time?
A: Read my answer to the first question. Plus, there are two perspectives and one reality involved in any relationship. Finding reality, the truth, can be hard because it might mean that YOU need to be vulnerable. DW and I have been through a lot. I have watched DW tell me the truth knowing full well that the truth may be the end of us. In the moment, the truth hurt. But today I see the bravery the truth required, and I am in awe of that bravery.
Q: Would you agree with the thought: "DH is such a lucky guy!"?
A: Yes.
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