While my 1st husband "guided me" to become his...bottom,after I left him I discovered that I was always perceived to be the TOP,so I was,and became damned glad OF it! But then,after meeting,(many),others,I discovered that "Tops" and "Bottoms" didn't matter at all! So now,whenever I'm WITH someone?...Top,Bottom,or Sideways,it makes no difference to ME! Sex is sex,and as long as both partners "get off" who CARES who's considered to be the "top" or "bottom"?
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My first partner heavily encouraged me to be his bottom, too, but I really didn't need much encouragement. 😉 My current primary partner is vers, but he gave up trying to get me to flip-fuck long ago. The thought of topping makes my dick go soft.