How many guys,here,have changed their "perspective" since accepting themselves? [I Am Very Open-minded Sexually]

While my 1st husband "guided me" to become his...bottom,after I left him I discovered that I was always perceived to be the TOP,so I was,and became damned glad OF it! But then,after meeting,(many),others,I discovered that "Tops" and "Bottoms" didn't matter at all!
So now,whenever I'm WITH someone?...Top,Bottom,or Sideways,it makes no difference to ME! Sex is sex,and as long as both partners "get off" who CARES who's considered to be the "top" or "bottom"?