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AuRevoir · 36-40, M
Unlikely. Though the threshold of what I consider to be an enemy is someone who is trying to ruin my life. Or the life of someone I love.
Not just someone I disagree with, find annoying, or think is stupid. That’s just a person I avoid, not an enemy.
An enemy actively attempts to harm you. I’ve been my own enemy. Teachers have been mg enemy. Doctors have been my enemy. A few kids in school have been my enemy. A few times in life family has been my enemy. Certain people I’ve taken jobs for have been my enemy.
To put this in perspective a lot of those categories have also been my greatest and closest bonds and memories.
I doubt there would ever be a scenario where someone who is my active enemy, suddenly also has a child, and the child is somehow romantically set towards me in any capacity. I could only imagine they were being given the same tyrannical treatment that particular enemy was attempting to show me, to push their own child into my arms.
I think that kind of scenario only happens in the reverse.
People end up dating or marrying someone. But the in-laws make an active attempt to be the enemy of their child’s partner.
That’s the only realistic scenario I see in that.
Not just someone I disagree with, find annoying, or think is stupid. That’s just a person I avoid, not an enemy.
An enemy actively attempts to harm you. I’ve been my own enemy. Teachers have been mg enemy. Doctors have been my enemy. A few kids in school have been my enemy. A few times in life family has been my enemy. Certain people I’ve taken jobs for have been my enemy.
To put this in perspective a lot of those categories have also been my greatest and closest bonds and memories.
I doubt there would ever be a scenario where someone who is my active enemy, suddenly also has a child, and the child is somehow romantically set towards me in any capacity. I could only imagine they were being given the same tyrannical treatment that particular enemy was attempting to show me, to push their own child into my arms.
I think that kind of scenario only happens in the reverse.
People end up dating or marrying someone. But the in-laws make an active attempt to be the enemy of their child’s partner.
That’s the only realistic scenario I see in that.