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Romantic At Heart

Unfortunately I love romance but my boyfriend doesn't have a romantic bone in his body.... I know men don't look at romance the way women do or most anyways.... I wont say all because every man is different...It's the movies fault they get us falling for all this romantic stuff then we want it lol....
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The movies can also be instructive. Over the years I've been inspired by films to do a variety of romantic activities. I always credited the source which showed I cared enough to pay attention. I wonder if it would be worth it to you to do a little research to see what your boyfriend thinks fits his definition of romantic. It could be you are speaking different languages when it comes to romance and you just need to figure out how to tell him what you want. Of course, there's the reality that he is who he is and if you can't find a romantic place/activity that you can enjoy together, you might just need to part ways. Good luck! I hope this is helpful and not just gibberish.
Restlessmama · 41-45, F
@SW-User I've gave him 14 years of my life.... Parting ways would never happen at least on my end....I couldn't say on his part but the truth is we never know what another is truly thinking.... Ive put so much work in our relationship over the years just to toss it away....Maybe your right and I need to try harder to find what he wants or desires...Maybe I been missing something all these years and not even realizing it....
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@Restlessmama You might not need to try harder, hell it might be easier. I think of those little walking robot toys from when I was a kid. The robot bumps into a wall and keeps on walking and walking and looks hilarious standing in place. But if you just turn it a bit (look at it from a different angle) the robot does the exact same thing it has always done but suddenly starts getting somewhere.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
I'm sorry for you.

I'm too romantic, I think, overwhelmingly romantic, and I've realized it can get too much for someone. Not everyone can handle the love I feel and have to give
Restlessmama · 41-45, F
@rrraksamam I wish you luck finding that person....

 
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