Try to persuade a person by appealing to their consciousness, by saying outright what you want, by showing all your cards, and what hope do you have? You are just one more irritation to be tuned out.
this is an issue for sure. a "seduction" should be enthusiastically welcome. a recongntion by boht parties that there is attraction there, and that perhaps we can convince eash other to enjoy that
NOT enthusiastically welcome? then it is just being a creeper