I Have a Spouse Who Had An Emotional Affair
I have many years experience dealing with this. I look forward to hearing and learning from others who share my experience.
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FieryCajunGirl · 46-50, F
@Goodguy1 my husband has been having an emotional online affair for many, many years... like 7+. I had no idea until he admitted it to me a few months ago. Then followed that up with he wants a divorce.
He is even still communicating with her. I always knew something was wrong and now I know.
It's sad, hard, heartwrenching... but you know what the F*CKING HILARIOUS thing is, I know the stuff he has told her is nothing but lies or a twisted version if a truth. He especially lied about me and convinced her I am some evil person.
Man is she going to be surprised.
He is even still communicating with her. I always knew something was wrong and now I know.
It's sad, hard, heartwrenching... but you know what the F*CKING HILARIOUS thing is, I know the stuff he has told her is nothing but lies or a twisted version if a truth. He especially lied about me and convinced her I am some evil person.
Man is she going to be surprised.
Agoodguy1 · 61-69, M
@FieryCajunGirl So what’s the latest with your story?
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Goodguy1 · 61-69, M
All I can say is be careful. I don't know your situation, but I know what it can do to a marriage...I'm on the other end.
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DNJ4EVER · 61-69, F
@Goodguy1: So your wife had the emotional affair ?
DNJ4EVER · 61-69, F
In other words sorry ,What happened ,how did it start ? Tell your story .
Goodguy1 · 61-69, M
Reconnection with a boyfriend from her teen years. It's been long distance for several years. I did finally confront him. Supposedly over - but I've heard that before. I want to believe it...
DreamxCatcher · 61-69, M
How did it affect your marriage?
Goodguy1 · 61-69, M
Been very tough. I've stayed in the marriage - a combination of commitment, my children, and wishful optimism.
DreamxCatcher · 61-69, M
I'd say this is/was just a fantasy on her part. If she wanted to leave you and ride together with her teen boyfriend into the sunset she would have done it. Perhaps you are taking it a bit too hard. How old are your children?