Why do people act so weird?

So I had to go to the pharmacy the other day unfortunately to get the morning after pill.
I used Protection but it wasn't rolled on properly so he wasn't sure if all the contents was on the wrap.

As a mature and responsible adult I went to get the pill to prevent pregnancy.

Anyways a woman I saw on a dog walk came in, I was filling out the form and the pharmacy was asking me to explain what had happened.

They don't usually provide side rooms for this but I was honest.
"we used a Condom but when he was taking it off he wasn't sure all the Contents was inside as it wasn't all the way up his shaft".

She had to hear this due to the way the pharmacy is set up.

The Asian assistant behind the counter looked like she was judging me too. But I didn't care, I paid, I took the item and left.

I've since seen this woman on my walk with my dog and she hasn't bothered to say "hello" she just stares at me...

Wtf!

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V00doo

Im a little concerned you were asked for details tbh. They never used it :/ It's none of their business.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@V00doo I don't really know what the procedure is since I don't have to take this regularly as condoms usually work.
Perhaps this was unprofessional I wouldn't really know.
But either way it is what it is...
I just assumed she was checking to see if maybe I wasn't using anything...
I really don't know...
This is why it's good to talk to others about these things because I just thought that part of the process.
She did recommend me considering another method and told me there's a possibility my cycle will be slightly different/and delayed. But it's normal

V00doo

@Mellowgirl The talk is good. Like about messing the cycle etc...

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@V00doo I understand.
Maybe she could have broached it differently...

V00doo

@Mellowgirl Maybe. I dunno, I just find anything to do with sexual health is such a taboo for some, and yeah, accidents happen, doesnt mean youre a bad person if you one time didnt use protection.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@V00doo I'm sure I'm not the only woman in the world who's taken it, and I certainly won't be the last.

This isn't in regards to you just a general statement.
In very proactive about my body and what I will or won't do to it.
I've not been on contraception since 2016 after I found contraception seemed to be aggregating my poly cystic ovaries.
I cut out alcohol and became a bit obsessed with fitness.
In that time whenever I had sex it was with condom and still no accidents.
As for taking something again, I won't rule it out but it's not essential since condoms usually work and although this is a regular partner, it's still in the "honeymoon" period.
We've discussed my issues and he's happy to use condoms as that works for both of us.

If the pharmacists intention was to Shame me, she's an idiot because I'm not embarrassed.

Miram · 31-35, F

@V00doo It is possible she was trying to identify if it was consensual.

But who knows. People are very annoying and could be just being nosey

V00doo

@Miram maybe