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If it mostly seems like someone likes you but sometimes they act very withdrawn like you're not there, do they like you?

not in a relationship or dating this person.
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Eh, at that point what difference does it make if they like me or not, if he is not even going to be available to be around me?
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
[@44604,Aidolovemostofyourthoughts] true it is game playing in a way
SW User
[@1201494,SweetFantasy] Maybe they're avoidant or emotionally unavailable or whatever it is. It may not even be conscious manipulation. But it's not my problem to solve. If he cannot make good on how he feels with his actions, its not for me.
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
[@44604,Aidolovemostofyourthoughts] very well said, thank you!
Daizy · 18-21, F
Sometimes I'll do that to people as a way of preserving the relationship and not messing anything up but it usually bites me in the ass
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
[@1122712,Daizy] maybe you do that to show you like them but don't know where to take it from there so you cool it off a bit?
Daizy · 18-21, F
[@1201494,SweetFantasy] I'm one of those overly anxious introverted people so I can definitely get in my head way too much which causes me to come off as withdrawn and almost cold at times. I do always verbally let people know that I care about them if I'm unable to properly show it tho. I guess the only way to know is to ask.
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
[@1122712,Daizy] you sound exactly the same as him, he acts and behaves like he is anxious and introverted and sometimes cold but when i ask him if I should stop bothering him he is very nice and tells me everything is ok omg
Dragfan8200 · 36-40, M
if they were withdrawn. from u then they may not 😢
JP1119 · 31-35, M
No way to know unless you ask.
Signals · M

 
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