If it mostly seems like someone likes you but sometimes they act very withdrawn like you're not there, do they like you?

@SW-User true it is game playing in a way

@SweetFantasy Maybe they're avoidant or emotionally unavailable or whatever it is. It may not even be conscious manipulation. But it's not my problem to solve. If he cannot make good on how he feels with his actions, its not for me.

@SW-User very well said, thank you!

@Daizy maybe you do that to show you like them but don't know where to take it from there so you cool it off a bit?

@SweetFantasy I'm one of those overly anxious introverted people so I can definitely get in my head way too much which causes me to come off as withdrawn and almost cold at times. I do always verbally let people know that I care about them if I'm unable to properly show it tho. I guess the only way to know is to ask.

@Daizy you sound exactly the same as him, he acts and behaves like he is anxious and introverted and sometimes cold but when i ask him if I should stop bothering him he is very nice and tells me everything is ok omg