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Why do most men just look at women but never say anything?

I'm sure most people have experienced someone just looking at them but not saying anything to you. Sometimes it's a stranger who you meet briefly and sometimes it's a person you see often.
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I will try to discreetly look at a woman that I find attractive, but it wouldn’t be appropriate to tell a stranger she looks good as that could come across as threatening. Or if she doesn’t consider herself attractive, it could sound insulting.

I suppose I could make small talk, but in most cases, there’s no reason to, and besides, neither of us wants the interruption. If it’s a situation like waiting in a doctor’s office, the grocery checkout line, or something similar, I do strike up conversations with people. If it’s someone I see often, I will interact if it’s appropriate to the situation.
SweetFantasy · 26-30, F
@LeopoldBloom girls usually don't like it when a strangers first words to them is "you're beautiful or hot" I guarantee 99% wouldn't be impressed. I guess this saying something instead of staring thing only has hope if it's someone you see regularly because then you have a chance to become familiar.
@SweetFantasy Exactly. I would have to know the woman pretty well before I would comment on her appearance.