I Think About Having An Affair

This is a sad....sad group I sure hope if I ever get married my husband doesnt think of cheating on me...

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GeniUs · 56-60, M

Well it may be that you think about cheating on him...
Want affection, want sex, want somebody to listen to you, pay attention etc etc but if your partner doesn't give you this but provides a lifestyle you are unwilling to let go you may decide an affair is the option.

silentkillx2 · F

yeah but if you wanna have an affair just get an divorce :(

GeniUs · 56-60, M

I have never cheated on any of my partners but some people want to have it all (more than one partner but don't want an open relationship) or don't want to lose a could lifestyle (if their partner provides more than they good on their own). These are just reasons off the top of my head I don't condone them but there must be loads of other reasons people do it and some may be valid.

silentkillx2 · F

@GeniUs: yah..i know

Flutterby

@silentkillx2: Not really easy to unravel a life of 20, 30 or 40 years when things are established. Kids, finances, assets, property, inlaws, outlaws, friends, family etc etc etc..it's more than just packing bags and walking out the door.. no matter how much you may want too.