Can chastity devices ruin a relationship?

There is a plethora of sexual activities that I find a lot of people frown upon, I’m speaking legal ones, that I’m perfectly fine with couples doing as long as they are both consenting to them. There are things I’ve enjoyed with past sexual partners, though not chastity devices, that others might say are weird but we’ve loved. As for chastity devices I’ve wanted to try them in a relationship with a consenting partner. Not just on her but myself as well.

Like you said, I think it comes down to both partners

In a secure trusting and respectful relationship anything is fair game.
Power exchange, water sports, BDSM..
it’s all about trust, security and mutual respect

It is all good fun and will strengthen the relationship.

IMO, if it is felt that a chastity device must be used, then you do not really have a good relationship. A huge part of any good relationship is trust.

Chastity is all about trust and also about if the man wants his wife to control him sexually. It is very erotic!

if there is trust there is no NEED for the chastity device

but it can be an offering for sure

Why would u want something like that on u

Sounds Victorian. 👸

How would that come up on basic conversation ?