COCKSUCKING.

It seems to me that there are four stages to a successful blowjob--arousing your man, making him cum, the actual orgasm, and the afterplay. I find that gentleness and variety are important in getting a man hard, not just sucking and slurping from the very beginning. It always helps to complement his equipment. You can suck harder and then take him into your throat as he stiffens up, and caress his balls and the space behind them. You can recognize that he is close to cumming when his balls tighten up and (of course) when his cock goes from hard to very, very stiff. At that point, you need to find the right rhythm and level of steady pressure that gets him off, while licking the bottom of his shift and stroking his balls. Most men enjoy it if you lick the cock head and the glans as they orgasm, but not very hard. Swallow. Keep on sucking more gently as they get soft. Be certain to lick up every drop of cum, and smile and thank them for letting you suck them.