Do you hate or dislike your ex lover/partner FWB
Romantic relationships/connections/situation can fall apart for various reasons...at times extremely horrible terms or sometimes cordially. How did yours end?
46-50, M
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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I don’t hate or dislike him. I actually feel nothing at all for him because even though we were physical, we weren’t emotionally deep with each other.
We ended because he fell in love with me without actually knowing me. Think he fell more in love with having sex with me and just couldn’t separate the two. We had an agreement and he knew that I wasn’t interested in that kind of depth. But it didn’t matter. I was forced to be the bad guy.
We ended because he fell in love with me without actually knowing me. Think he fell more in love with having sex with me and just couldn’t separate the two. We had an agreement and he knew that I wasn’t interested in that kind of depth. But it didn’t matter. I was forced to be the bad guy.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart ouch. That is a tough one, it is kind a hard, no? how did you find out that he had fallen for you?
I think i know that keeping emotions separate in situations like that is challanging, specially for women. However guys are not immune to fall. Although once a boundry/limit is already established crossing is not a good thing. It sure put you a bad spot.
I think i know that keeping emotions separate in situations like that is challanging, specially for women. However guys are not immune to fall. Although once a boundry/limit is already established crossing is not a good thing. It sure put you a bad spot.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@Fieldmaster It was very hard because to hurt someone like that who gave their heart so freely? Yeah, that’s not something that sits well in my own heart.
He flat out told me several times. Even started planting seeds in my head that tried to make me see him as “the one” so I could shatter the world I had…the existence I had that I told him I would not compromise for anything.
I think his downfall was the fact that he hadn’t been intimate with a woman in a few years. He was a good guy and all, but he had traits that made it clear why a woman wouldn’t want a legit relationship with him. …I do hope he’s found a loving relationship now though. I really do.
He flat out told me several times. Even started planting seeds in my head that tried to make me see him as “the one” so I could shatter the world I had…the existence I had that I told him I would not compromise for anything.
I think his downfall was the fact that he hadn’t been intimate with a woman in a few years. He was a good guy and all, but he had traits that made it clear why a woman wouldn’t want a legit relationship with him. …I do hope he’s found a loving relationship now though. I really do.
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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@Fieldmaster It was a FWB relationship that last about six months, if that.
Yeah, many guys would but I slowly found out that he had a big heart. I honestly should’ve known better.
Yeah, many guys would but I slowly found out that he had a big heart. I honestly should’ve known better.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I am sorry, thats just too bad, you know.
How do you prevent such situation or someone from falling for you?
How do you prevent such situation or someone from falling for you?
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@Fieldmaster You prevent it by not getting in the situation to begin with. Even with good communication and understanding, that level of being intimate with another can spark feelings and attachments that people didn’t see coming. And there’s really nothing you can do to hinder another from falling for you because our control stops with us.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart Exactly, and Totally agree with that. I think that is what holding me back, for now or at least my last kid is done with education.