Love seems to just not be for me

i just stopped trying in all manners online and in public. i haven't been successful in any regards since i lost my virginity 4 years ago. 2 first dates in the past year that went no where and girls that are not looking rn or just got out of ltr. Ill take it as a sign. Just do my own thing and keep my heart open, but stop trying cause its obvious fate has other plans for me.