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A guy apparently skipped the romance phase for me and directly jumped to the last phase

which is s**????Is it me or guys these days don’t waste time in romancing?

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RSquared · 61-69, M
I'm old fashioned, I know. And it's sexist. And not fair. But you set the tone - the limits. Guys are dogs. We will take what you let us
Selah ·
Thats antisocial behavior. Find a classy man who isn't desperate. Don't lead with your sexuality and ghost weirdos quickly and frequently.
Blondily · F
Because they are selfish. Men dated women in the old days when getting married was the only way they'd get laid. Nowadays they can get it anywhere, anytime. Romance is not in their vocabulary unfortunately.
@Blondily They need to bring back the practice of the father, older football team brothers and male cousins, uncles, and father's best male friends on the porch to greet the boy outside, before meeting the girl inside to meet the mother and all female relatives and friends of the family.
Blondily · F
@NativePortlander1970 I wouldnt go that far but lets not have a home run on the first date. lol
@Blondily I remember back in the day even first base was risky on a first date.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
Instant gratification is the name of the game these days. Nobody wants to work for it. Now I’m not saying a one and done is necessarily a bad thing sometimes; but is nice to have them put in a little effort first.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Their the same now as they were my day
My grandsons best friend new girl friend was referred to as the village mattress by their other friends
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
You mean he didn't even date you he just wanted to come right out and marry you in the first 5 minutes LOL no I would not submit or become part of a Pop-Tart relationship
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@Spacesbetweenus not that abnormal people can have sex and become involved in a relationship at the same time. The days of courting for months are gone. Thank God that's too much time and energy to pursue something and probably not even get it. I would say I would require at least getting to second base before it considering myself in some sort of relationship. Because otherwise we're just really good friends honestly
Spacesbetweenus · 31-35, F
@KingofBones1 so you support him ?
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@Spacesbetweenus I'm not taking a side saying you or he is wrong I'm just saying in my personal lifestyle where I stand
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
I would, that's the only part that makes it worth anything. I just know too much about it now, the whole thing is depressing.
Different · 31-35, M
Sex ? Or are u saying he is trying to marry you ?
Spacesbetweenus · 31-35, F
Different · 31-35, M
@Spacesbetweenus i mean he just wants to smash, if thats the only goal he is letting u know lol

I am straight up about that too if i just wanna fk ill say so from the gate.
come2gether · 46-50, M
Frankly, I'm amazed women are still shocked by this in the age of sites like tinder
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
He values your time, doesn't want to waste it with talking & such. 🤓
SW-User
Depends on the guy.

I rather get to know a person first.
justanotherone · 51-55, M
Is it the divorce?
Or what is the last phase?
Northwest · M
You have the power to block.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Don't lend him money.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
What happened lol
Bleak · 36-40, F
What’s the last phase??
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Wait til youre past 35 youll get men giving you attention then claiming they only wanted friendship.
@PaleandPolluted That's the last time I offer you friendship. 😒
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Dignaga i dont mind it if its all very casual but messaging me everyday, liking every post, flirting. Im going go get the wrong idea.
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
maybe he's shy
That's when You slowly walk away backwards, never keeping your eyes off of him, then when You are a safe distance away, bolt and run as fast and far away as You can.
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KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@invisiblewoman wrong not all men

 
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