"I cant get a girl because you have more than one girlfriend argument"

This was just brought up in a recent post of mine as a reason some people don't like poly ...... Is it that poly people "took one away" or is it that your insecurities and personality in general make your relationships not work out? There's no shortage of people just a shortage of food personalities on both sides. Abe a good person. That's the issue. If people could just be less controlling of their partner and treat them with respect things would be different