Why would a guy watch your social media for years without any communication?

I know someone well over 10 years. And over those years we both expressed intrest and attraction but i was clouded and not really paying him no mind.
I guess he was trying to send clues online but i honestly wasnt paying any attention.
Now fast forward to now i have feelings and really want to re connect but hes playing dumb and ignoring me. Why? He watches my socials all day and night and now that i put some motion behind my actions you ignore? Whats going on?

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Sounds like a mind effer. And potential in-person stalker. Can’t imagine why you’d want to have anything to do with him. Unless you’re interested in appearing on a future episode of Dateline.

Jeephikelove · 46-50, F

Sounds like an Avoidant, sorry no advice other than just flat out message him, if he ignores you maybe block him….

HumanEarth · 56-60, F

Ask Google They have been doing from the start, and they were hired by our own government to do it

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

So you know this guy 10 years. Known him since you're 12, according to your age range? And you have both expressed interest and attraction but never did anything? Lots of this doesn't make sense, and/or we're missing large parts of the story.

In any event, if you think he's a bad communicator, avoid, maybe even block if you get stalker vibes.

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