Is it really that hard to not be lead on by your dick or puss lips?

I see this all the time. "I'm in a relationship but then there's this cute guy /girl and we exchanged socials. What should I do?"

Lock up your crotch and think with your brain is what you should do.

I see plenty of hot people online but I don't get the idea to hit them up or cheat on my partner, why? because my pussy isn't getting to decide for me. I can exist around other attractive people without having to own them like a collection of hot abs on my living room shelf.

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DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

I think it’s a skill to be learned, often the hard way (pardon the pun)

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@DownTheStreet It must be an insecurity thing. That you need sexual validation from anyone you find attractive instead of just letting them exist as humans while you do you with your partner.

Maybe people who do it haven't yet learned that attraction doesn't necessarily need to lead to action.