Is it really that hard to not be lead on by your dick or puss lips?

I see this all the time. "I'm in a relationship but then there's this cute guy /girl and we exchanged socials. What should I do?"

Lock up your crotch and think with your brain is what you should do.

I see plenty of hot people online but I don't get the idea to hit them up or cheat on my partner, why? because my pussy isn't getting to decide for me. I can exist around other attractive people without having to own them like a collection of hot abs on my living room shelf.