Is it fair for my man to jump to the conclusion that I like drama and I am borderline

He constantly says that im unstable. I cant stand being accused when im not really doing anything. I just walked from the table to the couch. He immediately said that I had a mood swing. I consoled him that I was not mad just moving somewhere else. I dont see how he could just draw a conclusion so fast.

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ReneeT · 61-69, M

It does seem funny that a lot of guys will find something that they think is not quite right and immediately jump to the conclusion that you have had a mood swing or you got mad about something but you won't tell them what it is.

DarkHeaven ·

@ReneeT sometimes that can be true, though. we don’t always make it easy on them. 😂

ReneeT · 61-69, M

@DarkHeaven Always keep them guessing. 😊 And see how much they are paying attention. 🤔

DarkHeaven ·

@ReneeT yeah, but we are too complicated sometimes… what we see as keeping them on their toes, is for them a confusing mess of shit and they just assume the worst at that point. I mean I’m gay, so I don’t have a dog in the fight so to speak, but it kinda makes me feel bad for them sometimes. lol 😂

ReneeT · 61-69, M

@DarkHeaven Definitely a wiring of the brain, so to speak. Maybe not a dog in the fight but you do have the outlook right! Hope you had a good time over the weekend! 🤗

DarkHeaven ·

@ReneeT Very. It was nice. 😊

DarkHeaven ·

@ReneeT Actually as a gay girl with straight guy friends it put me in a unique position to learn about them without the sex stuff in the way and vice versa.

ReneeT · 61-69, M

@DarkHeaven And for me just by talking with other guys I can see just how some of them are wired so different than me. Some things that I hear and see, as a girl I would be totally turned off

DarkHeaven ·

@ReneeT I can see that. It’s so crazy, huh? We don’t even start in the same place thought wise. So it’s a huge leap to figure out where the other side is.