Is it fair for my man to jump to the conclusion that I like drama and I am borderline

He constantly says that im unstable. I cant stand being accused when im not really doing anything. I just walked from the table to the couch. He immediately said that I had a mood swing. I consoled him that I was not mad just moving somewhere else. I dont see how he could just draw a conclusion so fast.

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DarkHeaven ·

I would ask a follow up question, like what did you see me do at that time that made you think I was upset? It might have been something small like you sighed when you walked over, which could be a hundred reasons why you would have and could easily have nothing to do with him, even though he might have been immediately assuming it was something he did that was irritating you. In my somewhat limited experience with guys, I believe that he probably believes what he’s saying but that doesn’t make it reality either. Guys have learned through trial and error that with us girls that there’s often subtext to what we do but because they are still guys, the mostly get it wrong. If you can communicate at those times effectively… it will solve a lot of misperceptions & misunderstandings. Good luck. 😊